Kujwayelekile ukubona abantu baqeqeshwa ngamathayi ejimini. Hhayi nje kuphela ukuthi ungakubona ngokucacile ukunyakaza, kepha kusiza kakhulu 'ekubumbeni' kwemigqa namajika.
Emqondweni wabantu, ukugqoka amathayi acishe alingane ne- "Ngiya ejimini" noma "ngiya ejimini namuhla"
Ngokuvamile, amathayi wezemidlalo anezinzuzo ezilandelayo.
1. Ungabona isimo sakho kangcono futhi uqinisekise ukunyakaza okulungile. Ezingutsheni ezijwayelekile, kungaba nzima ukubona imininingwane yokubulawa lapho okunye ukunyakaza kudinga "emuva emuva" noma "i-angle yokuguquguquka kwamadolo nokwengeza". Futhi okokugqoka okuqinile kungaba yindlela enhle yokubona ukuma. Futhi izingubo ngeke zithambe, zinciphise ubungozi bezingubo ezibanjwa.
2. Ukukwazi ukubona ngokusobala amandla nobuthakathaka bomzimba wakho kugqugquzelwa kakhulu ukuthuthuka. Ngoba kungcono kakhulu, uzokwazi amandla nobuthakathaka bakho ngokubheka nje. Isibonelo, ingxenye yomzimba, abanye abantu abangazenzele imilenze yabo bayokwazi ukuthi imilenze yabo ibuthakathaka lapho befaka amathayi. Ngokuqondene nezinzuzo, amathayi angenza amadoda abukeke ngokwengeziwe mantly nabesifazane be-sexy ngokwengeziwe ... Kubukeka ngamehlo.
3. Puptire bese uqhubeka ufudumele. Izinto zokugqoka ezisetshenzisiwe ziyajuluka futhi ziphefumula, futhi ngeke zibe sezinto. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umphumela wokuvala amazinga okushisa muhle kakhulu, futhi ukuqina ebusika ngeke kubande kakhulu.
4. Indwangu enokuqina okuhle ihamba nawe, futhi ngeke idwengulwe ngesikhathi sokunyakaza. Lesi yisici esihle kakhulu. Abantu abaningi abangazange babe nesikhathi sokushintsha izingubo zabo baya ejimini bazivocavoce, futhi kufanele ngabe baye bancipha, noma bakhathazekile ukuthi amabhulukwe abo azoklebhula.
Isikhathi sePosi: Feb-16-2023