1. Thenga i-top. Uma sithenga isithombe, sithatha izingubo zethu, sizibeke esifubeni sethu, bese senza indawo yezingubo emahlombe ethu. Uma ezimbili zilingana nobude, izingubo
zifanelekile. Uma amahlombe ezingubo emafushane kunamahlombe akho, khona-ke le ngubo incane kakhulu.
Okwesibili, singakhetha futhi usayizi wezingubo ngokusebenzisa indlela engaphansi kwekhwapha. Okokuqala, wonke umuntu uthola indawo yamakhwapha kuzo zombili iziphetho zezingubo, bese
bese uqondisaizingubo. Umugqa usekelwe kulo mugqa bese ugoqa izingubo phezulu naphansi. Bese sizibeka esifubeni. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi iziphetho ezimbili zezingubo zise-
phakathi kwekhwapha, khona-ke izingubo zazilungile impela.
2. Thenga amabhulukwe. Uma uthenga amabhulukwe, ubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba amabhulukwe kumele afaneleke kakhulu futhi akhululeke ukuwagqoka. Amantombazane ajabule alandelayo azokufundisa ukuthi uwagqoka kanjani
khetha ibhulukwe elifanele ngaphandle kokulizama. Ubude besinqe bufana nobude bengalo yethu, okungukuthi, ibanga elisuka ezindololwaneni kuya ezihlakaleni. Ungakhetha
ibhulukwe bese ubeka ingalo yakho encane eceleni kwebhulukwe. Uma amabili elungile, khona-ke leli bhulukwe lifanelekile. Uma ukhalo lwebhulukwe lude kunengalo engalweni, khona-ke leli bhulukwe
nakanjani kuzoba kukhulu kakhulu kuwe.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubukhulu bentamo yethu bukhulu njengokhalo lwethu. Uma uthenga amabhulukwe, ungathatha amabhulukwe akho bese ujikeleza okhalo lwebhulukwe lakhe entanyeni yethu. Khumbula,
udinga ukulandela umkhuba wokhalo. Uma ukhalo luseduze nentamo yethu, futhi izinhlangothi ezimbili zixhumene, kusho ukuthi ugqoka leli bhulukwe. Uma kunezinye eziningi ngemva kwe-
indilinga, khona-ke lokhu kusho ukuthi leli bhulukwe likhulu kakhulu kuwe.
Nokho, ukhalo lwebhulukwe luyalinganiswa, ngakho-ke singabuhlulela kanjani ubude bepheya lebhulukwe?ibhulukweEqinisweni, kulula kakhulu. Sithathe izinyawo zamabhulukwe amabili ebhulukwe futhi
belula izandla zabo nhlangothi zombili. Ngokuvamile, ibhulukwe elalifaneleka kahle. Uma welula izandla zakho, ubude bebhulukwe nebhulukwe kwakunjalo
kulungile. Uma uphakamisa amabhulukwe akho amabili futhi izingalo zakho zingavulwa, kusho ukuthi leli bhulukwe kumele libe lifushane kakhulu. Uma welula izingalo zakho ezimbili futhi unenqwaba yaleli bhulukwe, lizovuleka.
kusho ukuthi leli bhulukwe lide kakhulu.
Singayihlola kanjani imilenze yebhulukwe lebhulukwe? Wonke umuntu ubamba izandla zakhe ngesibhakela, bese ezifaka emilenzeni yebhulukwe. Uma isibhakela singakwazi ukudlula, kusho ukuthi ibhulukwe lilungile
Iqine kakhulu, futhi akumelwe uyigqoke. Uma isibhakela singadlula kalula imilenze yebhulukwe, kusho ukuthi imilenze iyafaneleka.
Isikhathi sokuthunyelwe: Juni-13-2023
